So I Always Remember

Six months.

Six months ago today my oldest son and I loaded up every square inch of my Explorer and headed to Waco, Texas. Bikes strapped to the back and lots of hopes and prayers in our hearts. My mama heart was torn that day as we left my middle and youngest son to help their dad finish getting our house ready to sell. Leaving them all behind was never part of the original plan, but plans don’t always work out.  We headed off to get a start on a new chapter for all of us and what an adventure it has been!

Trying to find a rental house 1500 miles away turned out to be a mess, so we booked an AirBNB for a few days so we could find a little house once we got into Waco. Thankfully we found something the first day we were in Waco, God was all over that one because the house we thought we were going to get fell through. Having the AirBNB was perfect. We were able to get things set up at the rental house and have a place to come back to at night to shower and rest.


Once we got the house set up I had to start meetings for school and the big kid went back to work. I found my diy girl mojo and we started getting bits and pieces to make this little rental more comfortable. I was starting to find my groove at school. We were on a role in our new way of life and then my Explorer died in the middle of the busiest intersections in Waco. I was scared to death, but some amazing Texas gentlemen came to my rescue and pushed the car out of the way.

Car trouble when your favorite mechanic aka husband is 1500 miles away is no fun. My hubby tried to help me trouble shoot over the phone, but nothing was making sense. Bless his heart, he drove out here thinking we had figured out the problem. Unfortunately it wasn’t what he thought initially, so I still had no car.  I am blessed though and my partner teacher got me to school every day for a few weeks.

We got our groceries and such done on Saturday morning walks. Not a lot of fun in September in Texas, but it was totally doable. Living close to shopping turned out to be a blessing, nothing was more than a couple of miles away. Being outside was good for us and the conversations were hilarious.

Finally after getting a better code reader the problem was discovered. A bad computer! Seriously, only in my house of computer guys would the car computer freak out. Ha! Parts were ordered, software was acquired, and I learned how to turn a wrench in a car engine and change out a computer. Mechanic I am not, but with the help of my hubby on the phone and Zak doing the software install we got it!

By the end of September we were back in business. Day to day at school and Zak’s work. I kept busy. Daily phone calls and texts, lesson planning, a bit of exploring kept my mind off of missing everyone too much.

So one Saturday afternoon in October when I heard someone pull into our driveway my heart almost burst.  Kenny had come out one a surprise visit and brought our youngest with him. I was so excited and disappointed at the same time. Our middle son had stayed back to watch the dogs and house, but I got to talk to him everyday while his brother and dad visited. That visit filled our hearts to make it through until we could see them again.

November came and I had a great break at Thanksgiving. Our amazing neighbors had us over for Thanksgiving dinner and then took us on an adventure that weekend. We are so blessed to be across the street from the sweetest people ever. I started sewing again for Essentially Handmade and reopened the shop too. It has been so good to be back behind my machine!

I got a big surprise when Kenny told me he had asked for time off at Christmas to come back out here with the boys. It was a month out so we had to wait and see if it would be approved. His request was approved and we got a glorious week together at Christmas! I had so much fun cooking for my boys and taking care of them again. They have been such troopers back in California, so I really wanted to make sure to spoil them a bit while they were here!

Now it’s January and I got hit by the flu. Yuck. I’m on the mend and appreciating my big kid once again as he stepped up and took care of his mama. Lying in bed has left me lots of time to think and remember.

What a journey we have been on this last six months. I have learned I can do things Kenny always did for us and he has learned the same. What a blessing in disguise to be able to really appreciate all that your spouse does for your family. This trial of being apart has made our family bond that much stronger. I wish we didn’t have to be apart, but I am also thankful we are learning so much from all of it!

Watch out Waco! When we’re all back together in a few months we’re going to be unstoppable!



Work the Dream

I love Dave Ramsey for so many reasons.

His wisdom has helped my family stay afloat during trying times.

Simple, straightforward advice.  Just what this crazy busy life needs.

My most favorite quote is this…

So what does a financial guru have to do with a handmade business?  Actually a lot!  When I first started sewing for an income it was to generate a side hustle to help out our family finances.  Now using his principles I am building my dream of working successfully for myself.

It’s all in the dream.  The plan to move out of the classroom and into a self sustaining endeavor.  Waking up early and making the most out of each moment.  Engaging and building a community that fills each other up.  That is what is driving me to get after it when all I want to do is just sit.

Dreams don’t happen just because you wish really hard.  They come true because you work really hard.

So how do you stay motivated when you’re just plain tired?  For me it’s all about the bigger picture.  Where do you want to be?  How are you going to get there?  Is there a way you can reach your goal in manageable chunks?  Stop and figure out a strategy.

My current strategy is to get things organized in an assembly line fashion.  Using beautiful fabrics that I find mixed in with my tried and true prints keeps me excited!  I love, love fabric, so putting together an essential oil pouch out of an amazing new print is my carrot!  I get jazzed and then work becomes fun!  How cool is that?!?  Enjoying the process is just as important as the final outcome.  Am I right?!?

It’s not all rainbows and unicorns, but it is all so very worth it!








We’re Open!

We're Open Essentially HandmadeToday is the day!

Enjoy yourself as you browse through my incredibly adorable and totally practical essential oil pouches!

Essentially Handmade pouches are handmade with love and care right in my home studio space. Fun fabrics and awesome ruffles make these pouches stand out from all the rest.  An eye for detail and a passion for quality drive me as I make each pouch. It is my joy to find and pair the perfect fabrics for all of my pouches.  Every piece of fabric is washed and pressed before it is made into a pouch.  This step is just one part of my process that reflects the quality and care you will find in my pouches.  I love seeing so many beautiful combinations of fabrics transformed into stunning essential oil gear!

With three sizes to chose from you are sure to cover all your bases.  Bitties are the perfect size to keep in you bag all the time holding four of you favorite bottles.  Traveling? Grab an original Essential Oil Pouch that holds ten bottles.  For those that are serious essential oil lovers the Grand Essential Oils Pouch was made for you!  Its inserts hold thirty bottles. All of the pouches come with inserts that are padded to ensure you can store your essential oils safely!  Each insert can accommodate both 5ml and 15ml bottles along with the popular roller bottles.

Every purchase you make helps a dream become reality.

For that I cannot possibly thank you enough.

This shop is all about chasing a dream and I am so blessed to be able to share it with all of you!

  My tribe is full of amazing people that mean more to me than they will ever know! Without their help and support this shop would not be able to exist.  It really is a culmination of many hours of hard work and drive coming together to create a space I am so proud to call mine!

So, today is the day!  A new business is born!

Have fun!  Enjoy your shopping! I know you will find just the right pouch!












Dreaming Out Loud

Here we go!

Essentially Handmade is me dreaming out loud.

Putting it all out there.

Hoping and working toward a better life for my family.

But here’s the thing,

I can’t just jump in and pray for the best.

I have to be able to help pay our bills, because, you know, life responsibilities.

This shop is the start of a new dream.  A dream with me working from home.  Creating to make a living and filling my soul by living to create.  I am in love with this plan and I am working hard to make it happen. I am at a point in my career where I need to make this happen.

I set up this crazy plan at then end of December to launch my new shop February 1st.  With a timeline in place getting things done became much more important than watching one more episode on Netflix.  Working on my shop makes me a happy lady.  I start as soon as I wake up and get lost in the process as I create these fun pouches. It’s totally goofy, but I just love seeing them come together.

The alarm on my phone has been my pull back to reality as I sew by the lamp’s glow each morning.  When the alarm starts its song it’s time to get ready for another work day.  Still, I find myself dreaming, thinking, and plotting my next to-do list in between my responsibilities at school.

All this double duty is leading me to my goal.  Staying at home with my family.  Until we decided to sell our house and move to Texas I never really thought I’d be able to leave the classroom.  Teaching has changed into so much nonsense that the joy is gone.  I find myself frustrated, but that frustration has been channeled into something amazing.

All the little details and bits that make up this shop are fresh and full of hope.

Trimming thread, fluffing the ruffles until they are just right, finding the perfect whimsical border for my business cards, getting the right colors on the website.  All of those little things have made building this brand my heart and my joy.

It all seems touched by grace as it has come together and you, my community, have made this new adventure even sweeter.  Your Instagram and Facebook comments have filled me to the brim with good vibes and a thankful heart.  I am excited to bring you amazing pouches that will help you with your essential oils journey.  My goal is to give you a made with love experience every time you get a pouch.  Seeing these pouches in the happy hands of my customers all around the world is just icing on the cake.

Fabric, thread, zippers, my boys, and my music.  Not much more I could ask for each day.